Sarah Paulson’s romance with Holland Taylor is no American Horror Story.

Though the couple, who began dating in 2015, each have an Emmy of their own, that hasn’t stopped the Ocean’s 8 star from consulting her girlfriend about work from time to time.

“I absolutely ask her acting advice,” Sarah told E! News Oct. 3. “I actually talk to her about that kind of stuff all the time.”

“She weirdly doesn’t ask me very much for acting advice, which is kind of hurtful,” she joked. “As we’re discussing this, I’m realizing that’s a little weird.” (For more with Sarah, tune into E! News Oct. 3 at 11 p.m.)

But when it comes to the type of roles they accept, the Mrs. America star, 49, added that she and the Two and a Half alum, 81, don’t seek each other’s approval. “I think both of us are really independent that way,” she explained, “and we trust and admire the way each of us think about these things.”